Hugo Alexander
Dec. 17th, 2021 11:54 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
brandywine28I knew it. I don't know how I knew it. I just did.
He stopped eating Sunday night and he was gone by Thursday. It was quiet and uncomplicated. Fast. I was shocked at how fast. Plus -- seventeen! I am, in fact, aware that a seventeen year old cat is a very, very old cat. I know I have no right to complain. We had a lot of really awesome years together.
But.
It wasn't enough. It didn't feel like a lot of years at all. It felt like a blip.
So I'm sitting here, and it's nighttime, and...I don't know what to do with myself. Aside from a handful of wacky anomalies, I think it's been something like 25 years since I slept under a catless roof. Maybe longer. I don't know how people do this. Nothing about it feels right.
His most recent thing is, instead of sitting next to me on the bed and doing our butt-on-butt routine, he wedges himself behind me, between me and the pillow -- usually while I'm trying to read. He'll lay there on his side, brace his little feet against my back, and spend the whole night kicking me in the spine, the jerk. And he's not here to do it tonight, and he'll never do it again and I feel like I can't breathe.
I'm sorry. This is emotionally sloppy of me. I haven't even pressed 'post' yet and I'm already embarrassed.
Wow. What a year.
He stopped eating Sunday night and he was gone by Thursday. It was quiet and uncomplicated. Fast. I was shocked at how fast. Plus -- seventeen! I am, in fact, aware that a seventeen year old cat is a very, very old cat. I know I have no right to complain. We had a lot of really awesome years together.
But.
It wasn't enough. It didn't feel like a lot of years at all. It felt like a blip.
So I'm sitting here, and it's nighttime, and...I don't know what to do with myself. Aside from a handful of wacky anomalies, I think it's been something like 25 years since I slept under a catless roof. Maybe longer. I don't know how people do this. Nothing about it feels right.
His most recent thing is, instead of sitting next to me on the bed and doing our butt-on-butt routine, he wedges himself behind me, between me and the pillow -- usually while I'm trying to read. He'll lay there on his side, brace his little feet against my back, and spend the whole night kicking me in the spine, the jerk. And he's not here to do it tonight, and he'll never do it again and I feel like I can't breathe.
I'm sorry. This is emotionally sloppy of me. I haven't even pressed 'post' yet and I'm already embarrassed.
Wow. What a year.
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Date: 2021-12-18 08:03 am (UTC)I get it. I seriously get it. No matter how long they live it's never enough.
I've cried so much over all my cats because they take a piece of your heart and hold onto it always.
Much love to Hugo, obviously I never met him but I still loved him a little due to all the times you spoke of him. And I'm sure he loved you just as much as you loved him in return.
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Date: 2021-12-18 10:30 am (UTC)You'll experience little cat-ghosts, like the place between you and the pillow. And it is painful. But you kept Hugo happy to the age of 17, so it's no wonder things feel wrong. When you're ready there will be another cat that needs to be loved.
*hugs*
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